Mm, all very true.

*blink* Uh. [erases diatribe about Dana] I'll just shorten the book I wrote on that topic to: I never liked Dana and thought she was wrong for Terry, so I didn't really have an issue with him hooking up with Mel the first time since he and Dana had just had a breakup fight. (The second hook-up was a little hinky, though, because IIRC, he definitely was on-again with Dana at the time.)